Wakey, wakey early birds! Woohoo, the best time of the day!! OK, I have to admit I’m not the typical type of musician in many ways. First of all, I have been awake since 5.30am. I watched the sun rise. Usually I wake without an alarm around 7am in summer. I’m a serious case of morning person. And what I like doing first is the most complicated emails and tasks of my to do lists. My head is so much clearer in the morning. I think it’s the nicest time of the day to be out in nature, or anywhere in fact, so little people around!
I noticed that people differ quite a lot in their biological day rythms. Morning people seem to be a rarer breed than evening people. It can be handy if bio rhythms coincide a bit when you’re dating or going on holidays with someone.
It’s important for me as a freelancer to stick to a day rhythm and to go to the gym at certain days and sticking to a healthy lifestyle. Not a typical musician again so! In fact, I’m so interested in holistic lifestyle and nutrition by now that I consider doing a course on it!
Do you have certain routines and rituals in your day apart from going to work? And have you also found out your lifestyle or routines sometimes differ from other people in bigger ways? What do you think is the best time of the day? Curious to hear!
At the age of 17 I moved to Maastricht to study European Law & Language Studies. Specialising in Dutch Administrative Law I hoped to realise my idealistic ideas in environmental law. In my Master thesis I researched legal ways to differentiate a ‘public property’ of common goods from private property. Shortly after I was offered a student-assistentship teaching all first year Bachelor subjects in Maastricht University.
At 22 I was sworn as an Attorney at one of the bigger law firms in The Netherlands. I enjoyed the intensive work experience, but something was missing: time to breathe after all these years of studying, and time for my big passion: music!I decided to give up my job and home to leave to Ireland with only a backpack and a guitar.
I have worked as a singer/composer, recording artist, guitar/vocal coach, tour organiser and promotor of events since. I am lucky to have shared the stage with national and international artists like Tim Akkerman, Perry Blake and The Dubliners. I have supported my music with several PA/PR/teaching positions in international environments. It’s been an exciting ride over the years, back to the essentials of it all having lived on a farm in the ‘middle of nowhere’, and overcoming health struggles en route. A crazy adventure!
Besides giving concerts I love inspiring people in their own careers, having a diverse experience in two different worlds. I offer coaching sessions and vocal workshops to spark your inner voice.
Chatting with some friends in a café yesterday brought us to the topic of bands and musicians we adored in our teens…And it turned out we still got the butterfly feeling when speaking about some of them ha! It got me thinking about fandom and what it means to me as a musician. I was a big fan of some bands in my teens and I have been so lucky to finally meet some of them backstage at festivals in real life: From Paddy Kelly (Kelly Family) to Dave Grohl (Foo Fighters) and everything in between: Josh Ritter, Rufus Wainwright, Beth Hart and many many more…
As a kid I spent all my pocket money collecting CD’s and VHS videos, to go to concerts and festivals all over the country, spent hours and hours in queues before concert halls and at backstage entrances of stadiums. It brought me to many many places and it was always a good reason for travelling in The Netherlands and abroad. My parents allowed me to travel to a concert at the other side of the country by train on my own at the age of 15!! An exciting first solo journey! I met so many friends through this hobby.
Also it served as a purpose for travelling. I don’t like random travels so much. I prefer to visit places with a special meaning: historically, genealogically, movie set scenes (Star Wars!) or places with a link to music. It gives a whole new dimension to visiting a place. Looking up to idols always inspired me in the music I make myself. I had never imagined I would actually end up meeting some of these people in real life or even sharing the stage or the festival bill with some of them!
Do you guys have certain bands, movies or inspirations that you would travel the world for or that inspire you in your career or otherwise? What does it mean to you? And do you still get as excited about them these days?
We all know the world is a small place and it’s possible to bump into people you don’t expect now and then. However, in 2009 I was on a Ryanair flight from Ireland to Holland (and I’ve been on many!!!) when I got chatting to a friendly Dutch couple from Brabant and even sold them a CD on board. And this weekend, 10 years later, I was on stage when two hikers at Bloesemtocht festival (Betuwe) came up to me and asked if I could be the girl they had met on board of that plane….They were as much surprised as I was. Such a small world!!
It can be nice when sudden meaningful encounters like that suddenly put you back into a feeling you had back in the days. Certain smells or songs can have the same effect. You suddenly feel like the old version of yourself, different from just thinking back about it. One also always ends up wondering how such a coincidence is even possible.
I do have many more examples. One of the craziest was when I moved to Maastricht to study when I was 17 and I was writing the lyrics of a song I wrote with a friend on a big poster to put on the wall of my new room, when said friend in The Hague phoned me she was just painting same lyrics of same song to her wall in her room! So weird!
Have you ever encountered stuff like this? Like thinking of someone you haven’t spoken to in a good while when this person suddenly phones? I’m excited to hear your examples. Do you believe it’s pure coincidence of that there is a reason for it happening, like energies being connected? Curious to hear from you!
When I was a student one of my many acoustic music projects was singing harmonies with some friends. We sometimes jokingly called this ‘music therapy’. I don’t know what happens exactly in terms of sound frequencies, but singing harmonies certainly has an amazing healing effect on body and mind.
Over the past years I have been lucky to sing some live duets with several music colleagues. You will find several recordings on YouTube. In some cases it had the exact same effect: listening, grasping those lines from somewhere in the universe and just singing them. It can be a very spiritual experience. Everything feels whole then. I am so happy I had the same experience this week again singing with a dear musical friend. I will hopefully be able to share some recordings soon!
When I teach singing lessons I sometimes get back from students that they find singing more relaxing than yoga! Well breathing out deeply from the belly during singing certainly calms down high breathing, hyperventilation and anxiety, so it has great effects, giving confidence and strength.
Do you have any similar experiences singing duets or in a choir? Let me know if you find singing so healing aswell! Or join in with me for a vocal workshop! By the way, have you seen the Swedish movie As it is in Heaven? A great movie about the effects of harmonizing and the immense freeing power of singing your own voice out loud!
This weekend I was reminded of probably the most important lesson I learnt over my years working as a musician in Ireland: be social and collaborate! It’s something that’s often forgotten in Dutch individualistic culture where some people seem to be overfocussed on their own careers and results. And musicians can be the worst here!
I found this very different in Ireland on all social fronts: neighbours helping each other out with gas heaters in cold winters when needed, my landlord telling me he didn’t want me to pay the rent the month after the company I worked for went out of business. I saw some famous musicians still making music for fun in corners of pubs, and helping each other to set up gigs, lending out sound systems etcetera. Not really making a difference between buskers and festival musicians. Probably a remainder of the traditional session culture.
This weekend it was St Patrick’s Day and Luuk Lenders and I were spontaneously joined by a very talented wellknown artist from New Zealand Graeme James on violin and mandolin during. It was such a great contribution to the gig! Now if he were Dutch he might not have offered to. A lot can be learnt from the folk session culture. Put your egos aside: let’s share our talents, don’t go too low when negotiating gig deals, and make the music scene a better place. Because in the end: the music is bigger than us!
When I was a teenager, me and a friend of mine would take a bus from The Hague to Cologne in the middle of a snowy winter to play there on the streets for the Christmas markets. That must have been my first experience with busking. It wasn’t untill a few years later that I found out that one could actually make decent money with it. As a law student I joined a Spanish troubadour group in Maastricht. With this folk music group of girls, dressed in traditional Spanish costumes with long capes, we would travel Europe, and play Spanish folk music on the streets and restaurants of Aachen, Paris, Sevilla and many more places! I have great memories performing at the bottom of the stairs of Montmartre in Paris. With traditional instruments like bandurria, mandolin and pandareta we managed to pay for our own and our instruments’ travels all the way to Andalusia…
Lateron I always carried my guitar on extra plane seats in Europe, on buses to hostels in Ireland, on ferries, in the boot of rental cars. It came in handy many times and always lead to pleasant encounters, and even selling CD’s on the plane haha! My guitar has seen many places and streets of Europe, from Avignon to Venice, and joined me on several hitchhiking adventures! Oh and even some busking festivals!
Playing on the streets in Ireland, I was given money by one of the Westlife singers, invited to play during a book launch event, leading to meetings with TV producers. It always brought in fun opportunities. It’s a great way to travel as a musician when you don’t have gigs lined up. Even though live gigs are much easier money and not as weather dependent, they also need a lot more organisation, arranging sound systems, promotion etc etc. Busking gives a lot of freedom!
I have great respect for people who actually live and work that way, in the cold and rain, completely in the moment. We still do it for fun now and then after gigs, often on Noordeinde for St Patrick’s Day The Hague. Or two years ago as a warmup before our Paradiso concert on the streets of Amsterdam! Such a nice contrast with the vibes and amazing sound system of the big hall!!
It being Valentine’s week and the air brimming with spring vibes, it would be strange not to dedicate a post to the topic of love. That’s what music is about for the larger part in the end.
My songwriting ‘career’ started at the age of 16, being madly in love with someone, leading to my first song with the most basic teenage lyrics: I’m crazy about you, so I’ll sing you a song. I love you forever, ’cause I love you the most.And some prophecies in one of the older tunes Last Time about same guy: Thousand years ahead this man will meet his wife, will he sing her that song that he sang for me? By the way, I still speak to this person. They tried to let it go, to run away from there, they tried to forget it all…
I’ve always loved this feeling of romantic love, where you can really long deeply for someone, without having to take immediate action. It’s probably because I’ve also always really enjoyed my own company. I love spending time alone and the complete freedom to fill in my time as I want. I’m picky and it’s rare enough, but when I fall in love, I really do, and that often leads to new inspiration. Untill it ends… I hear the falling pieces, pieces of goodbyes. I hear the echo turning, turning on the light (Echoes in the Night)
Speaking about lyrics, I also really enjoy listening to other artists’ song lyrics. I even keep a favourite song lines list! Which song lines are your favourites? I wish you a spring full of love!
Show me one man who knows his own heart To him I shall belong (Jewel, Kiss the Flame)
What would you do if you woke up tomorrow morning without any fears? Would you leave your job to go travelling? Would you phone the love of your life to declare him or her your feelings? Go for that super job that you always wanted? Buy the dream house? Start your own business? Take out that bucket list of experiences? Try this new hobby or sport? Ditch those addictions to become the best version of yourself? And why are you not doing it yet?
Quite possibly you tell yourself you don’t really desire any of these things so badly anyway and that you’re happy staying in your own comfortzone. Fear and ‘not really wanting to’ tend to get mixed up in the mind. Well in my mind at least!
It’s interesting that in some situations we know very well what we want and we don’t hesitate. Like when I had surgery almost two years ago and I wasn’t sure of my health situation at all I became VERY focussed to use my time and money to record two CD’s. So the question is: would you still have the same hesitations to go for your dream if someone put a gun against your head or offered you a million euro’s if you would go for it?
It’s February already and 2019 is flying by. So it’s a good moment to check if you’re still heading where you want to go and where your own New Year’s resolutions are going. The moment is now! I’m excited to hear what little things you’re planning to do today to work towards your goals. Have a good Sunday!
When I was a little kid, there was always one item on my birthday wish list: a Shetland pony. I’ve always loved animals: domestic pets but preferably the bigger ones, like donkey’s, horses and deer. I wanted to become a veterinarian in primary school. Maybe I should have!
Every autumn I love to go deer spotting in the woods in the East during the deer rut. And here in the dunes in my backyard I love watching the wild Galloway highland cattle. I’ve even seen the birth of one of the baby cows! Last spring I went for a day hike with a donkey and I’m planning to do that again this summer. Connecting with our fellow friends is so grounding and healing to me. Must be my Sagittarius star sign!
One day I hope to live on a farm again where I can offer music, vocal coaching, meditation, inspiration workshops and….walks and coaching with animals! I even dreamt a very beautiful name for it already!