When I was a student one of my many acoustic music projects was singing harmonies with some friends. We sometimes jokingly called this ‘music therapy’. I don’t know what happens exactly in terms of sound frequencies, but singing harmonies certainly has an amazing healing effect on body and mind.
Over the past years I have been lucky to sing some live duets with several music colleagues. You will find several recordings on YouTube. In some cases it had the exact same effect: listening, grasping those lines from somewhere in the universe and just singing them. It can be a very spiritual experience. Everything feels whole then. I am so happy I had the same experience this week again singing with a dear musical friend. I will hopefully be able to share some recordings soon!
When I teach singing lessons I sometimes get back from students that they find singing more relaxing than yoga! Well breathing out deeply from the belly during singing certainly calms down high breathing, hyperventilation and anxiety, so it has great effects, giving confidence and strength.
Do you have any similar experiences singing duets or in a choir? Let me know if you find singing so healing aswell! Or join in with me for a vocal workshop! By the way, have you seen the Swedish movie As it is in Heaven? A great movie about the effects of harmonizing and the immense freeing power of singing your own voice out loud!
What do you want to become when you grow up? This question had been haunting me for many years. The ‘problem’ started with the situation pictured below. This seems very luxurious but it’s not as simple as that. I went to school at 5 years old being able to read, and graduated at 17, not having a clue what I wanted to do.
Was I born a musician? Ha! See the grades above! I do love learning, all subjects really, from maths and science to languages and music. School and studying (European Law & Language Studies, graduating in Dutch Law) allowed me plenty of time for hobby’s and other interests.
But then…work life started. This came as surprisingly huge challenge for me. Not being fully in charge of my own work load caused me stress and I was missing time for my other passions. After working as a lawyer in one of the bigger Dutch law firms for a while, I just felt like I wanted to press a big stop button, to earn back that much needed time to be creative! So that’s when quit my job and left to Ireland with just my guitar and backpack, where I started making money from playing gigs. It’s amazing how magic stuff always happens when you tap into your own flow.
Some trial and error later I know how I like to fill my days: either combining small parttime jobs with music or working independently fulltime. I’ve worked in a wide range of areas over the years: from lawyer, university lecturer, PA, train stewardess, sales person, PR officer to bar manager and more…You name it, I’ve done it!
The ongoing drive to create has always been the essence for me. Coming up with a crazy idea for a concert, tour, a story or a CD production and then realizing it is so rewarding! It’s like taking people on a tour to a different world. You know the little boy in the movie The Greatest Showman? That’s how I think and love to work…realizing my million dreams!
In nowadays society specialism is rewarded. Working parttime can be seen as laziness. Higher skilled jobs for 2/3 days are pretty rare to find. A pity for creatives like me who have a wide variety of interests. What are your thoughts on this? What drives you in life? How do you combine work with your passion? And what would be the soundtrack to your career?